Tonight, you heard the "President" say that the US govt will forevermore only recognize two genders, male and female. You bravely and boldly declared "I won't let them take non-binary away. Trump can't have it." You got quieter and declared that you were ready to tell us that you were non-binary, and that, in our house, you wanted us to know that. But you didn't want to tell anyone else yet. I told you I would always love you and keep you safe, and it was okay if you didn't want to tell anyone else. I asked you what pronouns felt right to you or if you wanted us to keep using he/him. You said they/them, but only when we are home. I said okay. I love you. I will always love you. I hope I can help make this world a better place for you to grow up in.